How are you being OVERstimulated when you're focusing "too much" on her? That seems like the opposite of what would happen.
The Official Girl Help/Issue/Talk Thread 2: Re-Entry
do others experience being so focused on her pleasure when going at it/going down that you start running on a mezzo boner from over stimulation or smt and she seems to be enjoying herself but you're thinking baby girl you're not even getting the full gurph pls advise here
des what i don't understand is how overstimulation would lead to half chub. chez moi, more stimulation equals a harder member, until maximum hardness is achieved, then each new bit of stimulation is one step closer to love explosion. however i suppose this is implying good stimulation. this guy's suggestion would be to ask her to use the talking hole until you are where ya need to be.
oh how i wish the rep system were in place maintenant
edit: welcome to mid-life spanks
I'm too nice for my own good. Been playing a back and forth one sided friendship with my ex (ie put up with verbal abuse and threats and got the rug pulled out from under me in a "power move"). He contacts me off and on when it suits him and brings me down and then blocks me. He contacted me when I was in the NL on Skype, begging to talk-- FaceTime, emails, messages (16 emails, 2 replies from me). I sent him an email of the truth so he would get pissed and quit viewing what we had as some picture perfect relationship of happiness and just move on. He keeps coming back and pushing me to invest feelings that I put away weeks ago of not giving a fuck. He responds that he deleted it and doesn't want to know and doesn't want a friendship (has said this countless times) and will not contact me anymore and wants the same from me (I've only ever replied to his messages when I can't take it anymore). More power moves, jump back into my life and tell me how bad your life is and then jump out and act like I'm the one pursuing it. Sick and tired of the mind games, but I learned today. Block, block, block!
/frustratedvent
Were yall messaging on something else in between that? That's sure awkward looking lol. "happy birthday" *nothing for 6 months* "i miss you, oh and i want your dick". :O
We honestly weren't. This is 100% just as random as it seems. I've been talking with her today since then and she said she wants to have a threesome with me and her best friend. I'm not one to turn a couple girls down so...but yea she's really great looking now, especially since she's been taking pole dancing for over a year so her body is fire.
@PM: I guess man, something like that ;)
@Ian: OurLordLilB
Tinder Q: If you delete your account on tinder does it wipe your presence completely, like gets rid of your matches so you don't appear to your matches and whatnot? Or is it like Facebook and it's like "deauthorize" so when you activate again you're back like nothing changed?
if you delete the account, it's gone. wiped from existence. if you just sign out and delete the app, it will just be a lost profile unless you ever sign in again
Snapchat is okay. I have it because my girlfriend wants to send me nudes. Usually when my friends send me snaps I just get annoyed thinking about them pulling their phones out to document everything.
One of the most toxic beliefs that many men hold, let alone abusers, is that women are obligated to pay attention to them, acknowledge them, respond to them, talk to them. In a literal sense, they can't fathom the possibility that people other than them exist.
Prevalent in both genders.
"Carefully made observation apropos to the subject, backed up by mountains of data"
Curt response employing vague generalities, in which case it is particularly relevant that hypothetical and unnamed third party females might also behave in similar ways, possibly.
-in response to an extremely vague statement that ~*MANY*~ men hold toxic selfish beliefs...backed up by mountains of data
....ok?
ever met a conceited sorority girl? if you think that behavior is isolated to men then ur silly
Just not sure what your purpose could be in bringing it up at all, given the context, other than to bust my balls. Why assume I think that? Because I didn't bring it up as a complete non sequitur? Does every statement about men really need to be qualified with an equivalent statement that women do things too?
re: mountains of data--ever met...any girl?
because windex is your typical case. another male who draws his worldview from this rampant internet circlejerk of sexism fuelled by puberty/insecurity (i assume he isn't still going through puberty, but like many others, hasn't managed to grow out of this mindset and think about anything critically/independently). a world in which he is the marginalized and everyone else is a social justice warrior and/or a feminist. hence his immediate defense in any sort of negative sentiment towards men in general with a criticism of women in general. it's another world. i wouldn't be surprised if he browses/browsed redpill or the misc.
To update, since people saw the shit show that went down in December/January and people not having much faith. First time for him being on an install with an "official title" and things are completely different... No heavy partying, we both deleted tinder, etc. He's actually doing what he say he's doing (cutting down on smoking, training, and initiating skype calls-- no more drunk ones). Feels really good, things feel very close to perfect and happy with it. :3