The Official Girl Help/Issue/Talk Thread 2: Re-Entry
What do you mean by tinder/not tinder?
^^sometimes I didn't respond because I forgot, I got so many messages that it was hard to keep up with who was who and what was already said, etc. Sometimes I'll think "I'll respond later" and forget for a loooong time. If anyone has messaged me on here or snapchat they know. I dont always check my apps either, I can go weeks or months before I check snapchat.
What do you mean by tinder/not tinder?
^^sometimes I didn't respond because I forgot, I got so many messages that it was hard to keep up with who was who and what was already said, etc. Sometimes I'll think "I'll respond later" and forget for a loooong time. If anyone has messaged me on here or snapchat they know. I dont always check my apps either, I can go weeks or months before I check snapchat.
I mean like ratio of girls to have been with from tinder and girls not from tinder, just an interesting one.
Have fun finding your prince charming. I think that's asking a bit too much. Im not much of a pick up line kind of person, especially over the internet. If she's interested she will talk, if not shes not the one. I don't know why some want so much for doing nothing.
the cry of someone who feels deserving of/owed anything
But what bugs me is girls will match with me or whatever on these dating websites then I send them a message and they won't respond. What's the point then? And I'm not talking about the bots or fake profiles either
When peeping at a female's account/swiping session you'll find that they can easily be inundated with matches and messages. is it outrageous that most (heyboys included) get left in the dust? Honeys got options, step up to the plate.
Also, mstk's post
What do you mean by tinder/not tinder?
^^sometimes I didn't respond because I forgot, I got so many messages that it was hard to keep up with who was who and what was already said, etc. Sometimes I'll think "I'll respond later" and forget for a loooong time. If anyone has messaged me on here or snapchat they know. I dont always check my apps either, I can go weeks or months before I check snapchat.
I mean like ratio of girls to have been with from tinder and girls not from tinder, just an interesting one.
meh, i can drop a list of people close to home who are in happy relationships/engaged with thanks to tinder
I havent been with any, but it doesnt seem to be much of an issue anymore
Have fun finding your prince charming. I think that's asking a bit too much. Im not much of a pick up line kind of person, especially over the internet. If she's interested she will talk, if not shes not the one. I don't know why some want so much for doing nothing.the cry of someone who feels deserving of/owed anything
But what bugs me is girls will match with me or whatever on these dating websites then I send them a message and they won't respond. What's the point then? And I'm not talking about the bots or fake profiles eitherWhen peeping at a female's account/swiping session you'll find that they can easily be inundated with matches and messages. is it outrageous that most (heyboys included) get left in the dust? Honeys got options, step up to the plate.
Also, mstk's post
why won't mommy pay attention to me? :'(
What do you mean by tinder/not tinder?
^^sometimes I didn't respond because I forgot, I got so many messages that it was hard to keep up with who was who and what was already said, etc. Sometimes I'll think "I'll respond later" and forget for a loooong time. If anyone has messaged me on here or snapchat they know. I dont always check my apps either, I can go weeks or months before I check snapchat.
I mean like ratio of girls to have been with from tinder and girls not from tinder, just an interesting one.
meh, i can drop a list of people close to home who are in happy relationships/engaged with thanks to tinder
I havent been with any, but it doesnt seem to be much of an issue anymore
Oh right okay. Idk every experience I've had with a Tinder girl so far has been bad. I was in a two year relationship thanks to Tinder and it ended really badly, since then I've been with two girls from Tinder and both have been terrible... and one girl not from Tinder who was mental. Basically I've had shit luck so far lol.
Although, someone might be able to help me with this. I'm taking a film production course, and there is a girl on the course who I really hit it off with, and I think deep down we both know it - but she is way out of my league, like, incredibly hot/clever and funny; but I really don't know what to do, considering we take the same course and for another year. I feel like I should wait, but it might be too late by then. It's really difficult, she's the first girl I've had a proper crush on for a long long time. Idk what to do?
If you go into something thinking that someone is out of your league, you've failed before ever trying. Don't be a pity party. Let her decide what league you're in.
I don't know how it's 2016 and most people here are adults and don't understand this yet.
I suppose. I guess I'm sort of scared to ruin the relationship we have now? Sort of biding my time I guess.
even though there are preferences, there are also things that nobody really likes. and people with a lot of options tend to not go for people with too many flaws, because they 'can do better'. doesn't seem weird to me
"This girl is too hot and clever for me" /=/ "I have flaws nobody likes". Also, you totally missed the point. You don't know what someone else wants unless you try to find out.
/momadvice. I once was someone who was "in the game", ya know. Being a young single mom is a big obstacle for someone to get over at times and I still managed to find someone that I think is right for me...so I don't think my advice/opinion is invalid.
Then those people just aren't right for that person, but someone will be. I wasted 2 years trying to become someone that my ex wanted me to be (skinny).... and my current boyfriend loves my body type (doesn't want me to get too skinny). I even had a d-bag that wouldn't date me because my ass was too big. Two middle fingers to that guy. But I found my guy, kid and problems in tow. I have no issues with guys coming onto me now either which I feel is partly in my confidence. I had absolutely none with my ex since he destroyed every bit of that. I've also approached hot guys myself. You just have to try, rejection?, try again with someone else. It'll happen.
Not saying that I have or that it's a possibility but
thoughts on having sex with your ex?
Depends. If neither of you intend to get back together and neither of you have lingering feelings, there's probably no issue. But the second you bed someone that you either still have feelings for or vice versa, you're getting into trouble.
I used to hook up with an ex whenever we were both single and it was cool. I'd probably never do it with anyone else because I know it wouldn't be cool.