any reasons neither of you have considered nexplanon? it has the highest effectiveness and the "surgery" is completely painless and very simple procedure. i was in the room when my gf got it put in and was out again after literally 5 minutes.
The Official Girl Help/Issue/Talk Thread 2: Re-Entry
any reasons neither of you have considered nexplanon? it has the highest effectiveness and the "surgery" is completely painless and very simple procedure. i was in the room when my gf got it put in and was out again after literally 5 minutes.
is that the stick thingy in the arm? I read a few years ago of doctors not being able to get it out.
i personally just hate birth control, I don't like the hormones or how it makes me feel. And the non-hormonal ones like the IUD make me cringe. I'm just suffering through the next few years and then stopping. He's almost 31, I'll be 27 this year so we're at that brink but need to get affairs in order first (graduate, get him here). I don't need long term birth control. I take the stupid pills when we're together and then stop them. Works so far, I just dont know where the hell my period has gone this month. :/
nah shes indian/white with the best DD's ever. bless up.
in other news my homegirl came thru the other night, the one i posted about the car accident a while back. me and two of her friends went to get sushi and whatever but i passed out otw home so the next day her other friend comes thru talking about how her ex just pissed her off and im like "yo you just said the magic words". so she straight up was like whip your dick out, my friends keep telling me how big it is. At this point, this is the best situation ive ever been in. I pull it out, hit like 4 times, I was playin MCC and on here right before so im like giving updates in between sessions bc i put that ass to sleep each time.
then when shes about she says the even magic'erer words, "lets be friends with benifits"
Im like, yes. I will see that ass tomorrowwww.
And she tells me shes gonna tell her friend about the stroke PLUS she used be a lesbian. Oh thank Yeezus.
So I mean, what do you say to the people that think poly is bullshit now that you no longer feel that way? Do you think everyone that does it just needs to find the "right one" and would actually drop it if that person came around? Or just that you found it wasn't for you? Because I know a lot of people dismiss the whole thing, and your dropping of the lifestyle would reinforce that idea.
I think there are people who can live successfully as a poly person, and I know a couple of them personally. What I'm not sure of is whether it's because they truly cannot be monogamous or if they haven't really tried to be. There was an article in the paper yesterday about how monogamy is getting harder and harder to achieve in Vancouver because people would rather play around in the "big city". Considering how small Vancouver is, it wouldn't surprise me if larger cities have the same kind of thing happening there too.
Another thing is that maybe poly people are just a little more honest. If they have feelings for someone, if they met a new intriguing person, if someone crept up from their past, etc...they'd probably talk about it with their partner, where as someone in a monogamous relationship will go to all lengths to hide those kinds of things.
Whence the importance of these "local lines" that Leach has identified--and which, two by two, organize the alliances and arrange the marriages (...) Wherever men meet and assemble to take wives for themselves, to negotiate for them, to share them, etc., one recognizes the perverse tie of a primary homosexuality between local groups (...) Underlining the universal fact that marriage is not an alliance between a man and a woman, but an "alliance between two families," "a transaction between men concerning women," (...) a basic homosexual motivation of a group character. Through women, men establish their own connections; through the man-woman disjunction (...) alliance places in connection men from different filiations.
It works if you're emotionally capable of handling it. FWB isn't a "forever" thing anyway, and that doesn't mean it stops because it no longer works out in the sense that someone feels fucked over. People can hook up for a while and leave it at that lol.
Got the young 3rd date tomorrow though. We'll see what's good.