The Official Girl Help/Issue/Talk Thread 2: Re-Entry

tarzan gets a point and sky gets a half point for being unsure
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would have liked to see you guys goof packie

expected more

 

so much

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FML FML FML FML FML...

i started BCP this month, skipped 2 or 3 pills before the boyfriend showed up and fixed it like the pack said to do. (Previously said it here) I also got sick and started antibiotics while he was here, Google said it was only a certain kind that can affect the pill. We both felt comfortable and proceeded on. I've had off and on weird spotting, no real period unless it just drastically changed my period so as of now I would be considered a week late. 

 

i took a test this morning and threw it away because I was 99.999999% sure I'm just not and I frequently take these tests to feel better. I checked it before bed because THATS SMART. Now I see another tiny line, same color as the control line. I don't have anymore to retest tonight and feel like I'm going to mentally collapse. I've never seen anything on these tests, despite looking at them HOURS/DAYS/WEEKS later. The only time I've seen a line or a hint of line was Connor.

lf others could say "hey that happened to my gf and she wasn't pregnant" that would be cool right about now. 

 

 

You need therapy.
that's probably exactly what she needed to hear right now.
I'm not sure how that computes from taking a pregnancy test because I'm now 8 days late? Wtf. Maybe if I took the thing right after sex, sure.
Nothing wrong with abortion

Damn dude. When you checked on the antibiotics, you said it was only one kind that could affect the pill...did you have that one kind?

That'll blow if you got pregnant, here's to hoping I guess.

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There's a fairly good chance you don't actually believe that.

I'm not saying killing a fetus that's 8 months along. Something that's a few weeks along isn't a big deal. But go ahead and have a bastard child

I've never seen anything on these tests, despite looking at them HOURS/DAYS/WEEKS later. 

You collecting them like pogs or something?

Damn dude. When you checked on the antibiotics, you said it was only one kind that could affect the pill...did you have that one kind?

That'll blow if you got pregnant, here's to hoping I guess.

 

nope, didn't have the kind that affects it or we would have switched to condoms immediately. 

im seriously hoping it was just a bastard test. I showed Dawn the test and she thinks it's a negative-- should be darker/clearer by now, etc. 

 

^^also no I don't collect them (purposely), I don't want my brother/parents to see them so I have to dispose of them carefully and sometimes forget the box in my backpack. You guys know about my anxiety and I double and triple check that shit. I don't want kids for at least two more years. 

Get depo-provera shot or something. My girlfriend got it cause she always forgot her BC. Now we fuck like rabbits without condoms. 

Get depo-provera shot or something. My girlfriend got it cause she always forgot her BC. Now we fuck like rabbits without condoms. 

i tried it and hated it. I was also worried about the long term effects. I think the other stuff out there is IUD (makes my vagina clam up thinking about it) and the implant which freaks me out. I've told my boyfriend I only plan to be on BCP for the next 1.5yrs and either use condoms or get on the baby train. My fertility is fucked up and I'm worried that long use of any hormonal birth control is going to make it worse. :(

Im not bad at taking the pill at least but I did a stupid ego move to show my boyfriend I would call his bluff. Lesson learned. 

and this would end in abortion if I am. My only "moral" convictions have to do with why I kept one and not the other or viewing it as a Connor. That's the only part that fucks me up. But I have to get through school first, another baby right now would just fuck that up and make it worse for me and Connor I think. I would have to put that stuff as a higher priority. Financially and emotionally WE  ALLwould be fine, but I found out the hard way with Connors dad that it doesn't always stay a WE thing! It's a ME thing. >:/

If you always have your phone near or on you. You should set a timer on it for when you're suppose to take the pill.
After her shot wears off which last 3 months, she is getting the IUD which is good for 2 years. I've absolutely ruined her with sex. In 1 year she went from being a virgin to only giving head to sex with condoms only to "just fuck me right here on the kitchen table while everybody else is downstairs." I can't keep up with her sex drive. Even when im just driving she'll ask to give me head. 
getting a blowie while wearing a condom.... lol

After her shot wears off which last 3 months, she is getting the IUD which is good for 2 years. I've absolutely ruined her with sex. In 1 year she went from being a virgin to only giving head to sex with condoms only to "just fuck me right here on the kitchen table while everybody else is downstairs." I can't keep up with her sex drive. Even when im just driving she'll ask to give me head. 

It may have been in combination with other things, but the IUD really put a damper on my girlfriends sex drive because of the pain. Might be different for yours but just thought I would share. Also, it should be good for around 10 years, not 2. Unless it's some different kind or something.

That's not what he said you simple fuck
here's your reply
I got the copper iud last month and my period this month was ridiculous. I used 10 tampons in one day and still bled onto my clothes. Wtf. A gun shot wound would have been less messy. No cramping though and the bleeding was only intense for two days so I'm hoping next month it'll be better. Idk. It's better than getting pregnant again.

holy

I don't care how naive this question is...but is there no concern for the volume of blood that is? That you're losing, I mean.

I was concerned, looked it up and apparently it's a "normal" side effect but a lot of people became anaemic from it :/

I believe it's a problem if you're going through 3-4 pads per hour.

Source: I work in the ER.

What size tampons? If they were light I could bleed through those suckers just as fast. I have to use super+ and super for 3-4 days, regular once a day when it comes to an end. I fucking hate my periods but I hate birth control just as much. I know someone that just got pregnant on the mirena IUD. Freaky stuff! 

Also still no period but I'm still thinking not pregnant, just fucked up cycle. Boyfriend doesn't seem to be that concerned so maybe my use of birth control will come to an end "soon" (closer to graduation date). :x

It was the super + ones, I've never leaked before this crazy period. Hey Shunt.
Want to restore my computer to day one since it runs slow but then I won't have my dawnie nudes anymore. Decisions decisions
Google Drive son.