The Official Girl Help/Issue/Talk Thread 2: Re-Entry

Carrying a glass table top with someone when it fucking exploded in our hands. Like a centimeter from being blinded

 

gash got me gushin

​glad it was okay, friend

She iight.

she cute but tell her to quit the expression

no one should ever start that

10-4 bruddah

I've wanted to post in this thread seriously but I can't bring myself to do it. I guess I'll just say that I'm in a rough patch and really looking forward to getting out of it.

 

i just posted about wanting to fuck my boyfriends ass and participating in tinder lesbianism to get my rocks off.

i think you'll be fine with your posts. :x :p seriously though, I hope y'all are doing well. <3

I haven't had sex since July. I stumbled upon this and it made me aware of some kinks I might have-- including switching roles of being the dominant one: http://tinyurl.com/q9vt779 

 I don't know if it's from the sexual frustration of not having any sex or physical contact. The other day I kind of got into the idea of waxing my boyfriend and butt sex stuff. It started off as a joke that I wanted to wax his balls and asshole, which quickly led to me telling him that I want to hogtie his ankles to his wrists so that I have full access to his asshole. I think he still thinks I'm joking.... :3

 

I haven't had sex since last September and im doing fine... but sucks what you're going through And tried to bold your first sentence but.. html doesn't work? "<(b)>" doesn't work for bold?

Ive never gone that long without sex. :o I would be an absolute bitch in that case.

i thrive with my 22 years

18 years gang heart

Do you guys have an interest for it? I'm curious how that is. I jumped into it pretty early at 15, and except my pregnancy, this is probably the longest I've gone without sex so far (just passed 3 months now and could go to 4.5 months before I see him again).
Haven't had sex in almost 2 months, I miss the intimacy. :(
Here's the thing, you don't have sex often, you don't really have anything to miss. Well for the most part. You still want it, you don't strive for it is what I'm getting at. I'd rather have a partner than a booty call as of right now
Haven't had sex in almost 2 months, I miss the intimacy. :(
I may have missed something, but how is this so?

You haven't missed anything, but for the past year she's had an iud which has been pretty painful for her and we finally got it removed about a 2 months ago now. It made intercourse sometimes painful for her and now she's a bit anxious and scared about doing anything. She said she wanted to go slow and work her way up to it. I'm completely fine with that, I just want her to be comfortable and happy. We've done some oral stuff once in awhile  since then but it seems like I'm always initiating everything. It feels like the passion is missing, and furthermore any desire for me. We had the house for ourselves one day so I thought it would be a good opportunity to go down on her and she really enjoyed it and I was expecting to be reciprocated because she said she would but she completely forgot about me afterward. She has always had a moderate to low sex drive while I've always been pretty high up there. I respect the pain she's been through with the iud which is why alternative activities would be welcome but that has been pretty stagnant as well. With all this I've been pretty sexually frustrated lately.

It could be just as likely that I'm being selfish though and if that's the case just tell me.

Just reading that lowered my sex drive. AH. I can understand the fear, I didn't have sex for a year post partum because I was terrified of the pain. It's a mental hurdle to get past. Is she on SSRI's? I remember there being issues there but can't remember. That can also kill it. :(

You are cordially invited to a threesome if you ever end up in central VA. 

"waaaah i am sexually frustrate"

waaah Im sexually frustrate

As many of you can echo this sentiment, this is an ode to most of our dicks. Independent thinkers, hard workers and frankly more honest than almost anyone on this Earth. I've been craving the mushi...

Curious from a guys POV (and Dawn), are girls more attractive when they show their "blemishes" (pretty much THEIR SKIN) while wearing makeup or is the preferred look to cover it all up and repaint a perfect face for better aesthetics? With this stupid craze of contouring I'm starting to feel self conscious with my routine. I will do dramatic eyes and leave my face alone because I do have freckles and things that make me look human. Then I go out and feel like a child while I'm surrounded by these girls that look like they've spent half the day painting their face AND THEY ALL HAVE THE SAME DAMN LOOK. I guess I'm also asking because "that look" is plastered everywhere and guys seem to eat that shit up, they're flawless and perfect on billboards and IG.

Maybe I'm just getting old.

inb4 depend on te guy lol

Generally no, they are not more attractive when they show their blemishes.

depend on te guy lol

but i think freckles are awesome

The contoured cake face doesn't keep my attention too long. Don't sweat it, your man will appreciate you not feeling the need
It depends on who you're trying to impress, is it those girls or someone specific?

Well damnit that didn't confirm much lol. I'm not really trying to impress anybody, I wear make-up for myself to feel good/look good. I don't mean blemishes as in acne (I can see the "need" for face make-up in those cases), I don't have break-out issues or discoloration just freckles and pores. The cake face seems so cartoonish and wasn't sure if maybe *I* stand out in the wrong way I guess since the other girls look the same.

 

 I don't do heavy make-up and my boyfriend hates a lot of makeup anyway so I'm good on that front. I guess it just makes me wonder if I'm doing shit wrong. Not that I would change now though.

 

**side note, I've been up all day and night. I don't even know why the fuck I started thinking about this mid-afternoon. O:)

 

the options aren't "see my blemishes? I'm real" and "cake face" only tho
"im not like other girl lol"

the options aren't "see my blemishes? I'm real" and "cake face" only tho

contouring is pretty cakey

look at all the use of vanilla icing and caramel glaze there

I'm a terrible one to ask because I've never worn make up, have near perfect skin and think make up, perfume, and over doing yourself is hideous. lol. I think you're fine, Allison. Do what you like.
Agreed.  I also liked women who looked more real as opposed to plastic Barbie dolls.  

the options aren't "see my blemishes? I'm real" and "cake face" only tho

They kind of are though, even contouring aside, if a girl has a layer on her face to the point you can't even see her pores or freckles (which is why girls use face makeup because it's designed for coverage), then you have a cake face. There's a layer between your skin and your face (foundation, concealer, highlighter, bronzer, etc). It's an illusion, so you either see a girls blemishes and fine lines or she's covering it up and has make-up caked on. If she has it on well enough to cover blemishes then definitely cakey. That's not easy to cover.

BB creme even gives me a film that I hate. That's when I ditched face makeup altogether. 

the options aren't "see my blemishes? I'm real" and "cake face" only tho

contouring is pretty cakey

look at all the use of vanilla icing and caramel glaze there

 

and this shit is crazy to me. In my physics class one of my 18 year old lab partners showed up to class with her face perfectly contoured with outrageously filled in eyebrows for weeks straight. Whyyyyyyyy 

 

Freckles and pores aren't even blemishes. Fuck other people and do your makeup exactly how you want to do it
i think kandee sexy lol