I'm sure you're really helping his mourning process.
You're forgetting that Gage is a raging narcissist. The fact that he's using this girl's death as an opportunity to show off how deep he is should've tipped you off. Notice how this tragedy due to reckless driving doesn't seem to have prompted any reflection on Gage's part about his own reckless driving, or at least none that he wanted to share with us. He had more important things to share, like:
Her parents called and asked that I write something for the funeral; they want me to speak.
What I wrote ended up being put in the local newspaper and I thought I would post it here.
He's not grieving, he's bragging. I wonder if her parents would've asked him to speak at the funeral if they'd read all of the awful stuff he posted in his thread bragging about getting busted for going 70mph over the speed limit.
or maybe he's just sad. And he wants to share a hard moment with people. There doesn't have to be negative and narcissistic undertones in everyone's posting style Colo.